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You are your own cavalry

All throughout our lives, we are taught to stand up to the expectations and wisdoms people hope us to be having. Avoid turning out to be an out-of-the-box being but stay a mere puppet who lives the standard mediocre life, hesistant towards the probable upcoming destiny-changers. 

Life is an ocean. Seeming quiet (soughtable) on the surface but holding infinite number of lessons within. Human souls are the ships that sail over the waters, trying to divert the direction (ship's wheel) in all situations where deviations seem the best option out. On this journey, the waters don't always stay calm. They act on their own tides and send us baskets of unexpected pop-ups. Everything is bottled up in tiny baskets which we come across in the course of our life. 

It's not only about the things we have in life, but majorly what we do about them. The orthodox thinking that acts like shackles around our beliefs turns out to be the biggest stone that hinders our journey of life. Every stone we stumble across isn't always meant to be crossed over, sometimes they are placed in our way for us to gear ourselves up and throw them far away from the path on which other passengers (fellow beings) shall also travel.Not all things come easy. Stumbbling would only mean that we ease our own trip and leave the hurdle for others to face. Be a worker and take the initiative of easing other people's journey by foresighting a bigger plan and implementing on it despite of all hardships.

Not everyone is blessed with the courage or opportunity to work for the betterment of fellow beings. Whenever, you come across an instance where you can lend a helping hand, sure take the initiative. It might not do you much good directly but the conscience will always guide you right. Be selfless and stay put. Stop running from actions and hardwork even if they are not for your own thyself but for others. Maybe the person or the reaction of action won't just pay off quickly, but time shall surely come with a heavy paycheque. 

Moreso, mediocrity is overrated. It's been done with, lived with, overused with. Traditional thinking won't take you places. Be open to changes, newness and accept the discomfort with open arms. Expectations should be met with, for as long as they coincide with your soul. Think rationally and do what seems the most appropriate. Wisdoms never existed, they were created. So don't wrap your brain around only following it blindly. Cross your heart over it and try creating your own ones.

Your life is inclusive of the journey that you alone will undertake. Remember, every setback is an opportunity in disguise. On this path, certain fellow travellers shall take your hand and help you step over pebbles. But when it comes to that big scary stone, you are the lone one to decide whether to take the easy way out and just tackle it with a long stride or to buckle up and push it out of the way. Opportunities will knock on your life door a handful number of times, be sure not to miss them; neither to back away from it nor to sell yourself short infront of them.

Rightly remarked by Elaine Maxwell, "Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the FORCE"









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