Whispering Willows

Works and jobs are carried out with proper plans being prepared , method  and steps being followed . There are only exceptional cases where the activity is executed before laying out it's pros and cons . We have the general tendency of finding out what good will do us if we perform that certain work .  Admist all the laid-out-guidelines , what makes us change the path of the course of action is the hunch or the gutt feeling which indicates towards doing a certain thing in a certain way , opposite of what has been pre-planned .  Though initially , we might not be able to get the reasoning behind the diversion , but later on when the results are presented , the changed path plays it's part in turning things for our own good . All we need is an element of patience and wide open-mindedness to see what good has been entrusted upon us by the change .  Diversion caused by hunch or some kind of hints are difficult to be explained as either being a behavioural emotion or a fo...

"They kept on comparing ; kept on creating the differences ; kept on telling us what we couldn't do .But I still was happy because I loved the way I was ." Happiness is a beautiful feeling . Happiness is when a child gets to have his favourite ice-cream . Happiness is when a father watches his little daughter walk her first steps . Happiness is when kids go outdoors to play with their friends . When you know who you are , and what you are capable of ; when you know your weaknesses , your flaws and imperfections and still don't complain ; when you know how to convert your weaknesses into your strengths ; when you treat both disaster and triumph in the same manner ; when you smile admist all problems , you are happy ! Your happiness is the outcome of your own beliefs , your own attitude . It should not depend on what others think or say about you . Your thoughts define your character and they should not reply on people's merci . People don't care about what you ...

Amidst all the cheering , compliments and applaud for becoming the next Paulo Coelho , Ansel Adams , Richard Avedon  or da Vinci , what we forget is that we have become the next somebody . Somebody which the whole world has known . Somebody who has been appreciated and applauded for their pieces of work .  We have failed to establish ourselves as a whole and tried all along to be the next somebody . The personalities whose' hats we try to don are themselves the ones who havn't doned anybody else's hat but their own . What if Pablo Picasso aimed to become the next da Vinci ? What if Jackie Chan aspired to be the next Bruce Lee ?  Had they done that , the world would have lacked Picasso's unique artistic talent . The world would've been deprived of the geniuses .  Let Jackie Chan , the versatile actor's words , " I never wanted to be the next Bruce Lee . I just wanted to be the first Jackie Chan " , inspire us and let our individuality shine ... to let o...

Life is a journey taken forth and we the travellers . As remarked by the great Shakespeare , we travel through the various stage of life . The stages which run through birth till demise . The fact that a person takes upon this journey of stages of life alone and ends it alone too , cannot be disregarded . It is what is in between the transit of the two extremes stages that we meet the fellow travellers . Some we come across and forget about . But some remain into our lives for long . They are the ones who make our journey worth travelling , by making hard times past rapidly and helping us make the most of the good times . Their presence enchants quality vibes into our lives . Our faith and trust is vested upon them .  It is not easy coming across such lovely travellers and to have them as a part of your life . But I am blessed to have one such pleasantly gift of god in my life . I have come across her as my best friend . A person who knows about my weaknesses , strengths and all . ...